Make Them Beg: Intro to Orgasm Denial, Genital Torture, and Chastity

This workshop is currently only available for private bookings. Contact us for more details or purchase a ticket below and then email us with your Order # to schedule your private workshop! 

Learn how to safely and effectively give and receive cock and ball play, breast and nipple play, and the delightful kind of genital play we love. Whether you are a loving Dom, a compliant bottom, or a bratty sub, this beginner class is for you. 

Safety first! We will begin with a brief lesson on the anatomy of the medically male and female genitals and breasts, and the unique tissues that comprise them so that we are all on the same page, talking about the same parts. MrsKate brings a strong background in negotiating a scene and R.A.C.K. (risk-aware consensual kink).

Understanding S&M is just the start. We will cover various conceptualizations of sensual cock and ball play and why people enjoy different aspects of this type of play within a kinky context. In the most extreme manifestations we will also touch on some CBT. CBT = Cock and Ball Torture (alternatively “Torment,” or “Teasing,” depending on the intensity you and your partner choose).  

The basic cock and ball play you will learn include (but are not limited to): light genital bondage, ball slapping, cock slapping, cock and ball stretching or pulling, male chastity and safe cock cages, and other creative ways to induce pain and pleasure. If you're lucky she might demo some exciting knife play. These will be revealed through the appropriate stages of CBT play.

CBT Techniques will be modeled on Spot of Delight's super-strong-neon-dick There will be no genital nudity in this introductory class. You may however see some pictures MrsKate has taken to show examples of her beautiful work.

"While some will say there is no way they will ever try CBT, we assure you that MrsKate can open your erotic mind and show you a style that feels right for you specifically. Those that do take the leap and give this class a chance will learn the difference between sensual CBT (that they will DEFINITELY enjoy) and the stricter S&M techniques that can still be used by those interested." -- MrsKate

Come and find out the sensual and the strict realities of the different forms of CBT from MrsKate, who has been in the kink community for a decade now. She has been exploring and developing her own unique style that involves the sensual side up to the harsher flavours that she thoroughly enjoys. She has experience in various forms of the BDSM lifestyle, relationships, and techniques.Bring your questions and see where this class sends your mind, and possibly future play, on a journey to the realm of CBT.

Specifically on the sensual side of Breast and Genital Play, here is more of that's covered:

• The beginner's side of Breast and nipple torture. This is lighthearted side that starts you on your journey to discovery of the nice 'ouch' play.
• The beginners side of Genital Play, how to start your journey to the more extreme play on both males and females.
• Anatomy involved for both sexes.
• What you need to be aware of to keep your partner safe and healthy.
• How to negotiate and consent to play.

What is NOT covered?
Needle play on genitals, blood play, and extreme genital play.

What do you use for play?
Types of toys and tools that are used will include rope, paddles, clothespins, crops, canes, and other little devices that can be fun...
It all can start with a tickle here and there on the skin, where it stops is all about the consent and knowledge.....