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Spot of Delight

Discovering Your Dominance


(2 hours)

Hey! Lots of folx are curious how to practice safe and consensual kink, especially as a top or Dom(me). Being a top is a lot of responsibility, but don't worry, we got you! This workshop will include:

  • Some common kink terms
  • What happens if you run out of ideas?
  • Differences between topping and domming 
  • Your role as a Top co-creating a kink space with your partner(s)
  • Responsibilities of tops
  • Consent
  • Rights of tops
  • Mapping our your scene in advance in order to create a plan you can flow through more smoothly during play
  • Learning your bottom, reading your bottom
  • Reasons we top: getting off on competency, feeling powerful, providing a service, 
  • Technical kink vs fulfilling a fantasy
  • How to communicate with your bottom in toppy ways without breaking the scene
  • Slowly transitioning into after-care
  • Celebrating successes while de-briefing afterwards
  • Getting involved in the community: networking with other Tops, finding the right bottom
  • Books we recommend
  • The class will be taught by an individual who identifies as a Domme.


  • NO PHOTOGRAPHY is allowed during workshops. The Facebook event list is hidden to respect the privacy of our customers. Discretion is what we do.
  • NO FRAGRANCES PLEASE. Respect the sensitivities in others in the workshop space. 
  • WORKSHOPS ARE SUBJECT TO CANCELLATION DUE TO LOW ATTENDANCE. If this occurs, you will be informed within 24 hours of the workshop, and afforded a full refund. 
    Personal cancellations must be received 24 hours prior to the workshop for a full refund. Personal cancellations within 24 hours of the workshop will be awarded store credit. 
  • LOVE THIS EVENT but want more intimacy? PRIVATE WORKSHOPS available. Call or email to inquire about single vs. group rates. Bachelorette parties and church groups welcome.
  • NO ONE TURNED AWAY FOR LACK OF FUNDS. Our workshops are already super affordable, but if you are still experiencing a financial barrier, come talk to us in store.
  • Regretfully, this venue is not wheelchair accessible.

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